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Dechezare

69 – Uxbridge, London, England

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Online: 2 weeks ago

Modified: 11 September 2021

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About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Uxbridge, London, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
69
Star sign:
Leo
Height:
5' 7" (170cm)
Body type:
Full figured
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Brown
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
Let's see what happens
Have children:
No
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Within 40 miles of postcode district UB8 (Uxbridge)
Gender:
Male
Age range:
64 - 75
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 6" (199cm)
Body type:
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

Since becoming a widow, I am determined to make the most of the remaining time I have left.
I am a person full of contrast - i.e. when fitness allowed I loved to go ski-ing, paragliding, dancing, do a bit of gardening (I have now had new knee - so hope to get back to being more active) - then at other times I just want to sit and read or listen to music (classical, rock, pop), do a sudoku puzzle, a crossword. I like to learn how to do things so as not to rely on others - but at other times, I can be lazy and wish that someone would do that little DIY task for me! I love to have an occasion when I can dress up and attempt to be glamorous, but I often wear comfy casual clothes. I don't particularly enjoy cooking, ironing or housework - but I know I can do it if needs must. I love to travel (though not on my own) and my next must do 'before I die' project, is to go Whale-watching. I am an animal lover and have a dog. I am young-thinking for my age and mentally, I feel about 26 - having grown up a bit over the last 10 years. I am what you might call a strong-minded person and quite independent, but I do miss having someone with whom to share joyful moments, to share deep and meaningful conversations. I would like to meet someone who can cook better than I and who can make me laugh, someone who understands the meaning of compromise, but is not an emotional doormat. I could write a lot more words - but they need to be said face to face to a man who captures my interest. >

About her ideal match

I don't have a blueprint for my perfect match, but there are some things I know I would appreciate in a companion - he would like to cook on occasions, do a bit of gardening, DIY, like to dance, follow football, rugby, F1 and other sports (but not obsessively), love and care for/about animals, like to travel to inspiring and mind-expanding places, appreciate all types of music, like Sci-Fi films - and - if he didn't like some of these things, he wouldn't mind that I did and that I would spend some time doing such activities. In return, I would reciprocate. An ideal match would understand my view that all things in life require balance and therefore a certain amount of tolerance is required - but not be an emotional doormat.
I would like to spend time with someone who could make me laugh, someone who enjoys conversations about The Meaning of Life, The Universe and Everything, I would appreciate someone who is kind, thoughtful and caring - someone who doesn't suppress his feminine side - I certainly don't hide my masculine side and am regarded as a strong-minded woman - balances again!
I would like to spend time with someone who has experienced some of life's many facets but has not allowed himself to become cynical, jaded or unappreciative of the everyday beauty of life. I would like to be able to share the joys of life with someone because the joy is more than doubled when it is shared.

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More about her

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Confident; Faithful; Intelligent; Loyal; Outgoing; Philosophical; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite colour:
Purple
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Music preferences:
Classical; Dance / Disco; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock
Reading:
I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Sci-Fi; Travel
TV habits:
I watch television every day
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Drama; Horror; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Gardening; Internet; Music; Photography; Reading; Sewing
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Archery; Bowls; Chess; Dance; Football (Soccer); Hang- / Paragliding; Motorsport; Rugby; Swimming; Tennis
Food
Cooking:
I have to cook
Food:
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I don't work
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking; Wealth
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Dream home:
On a beach
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Politics:
Left of centre
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using Saga Dating:
Hopeful; Optimistic
Honesty:
Very