About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Shepton Mallet (Somerset), Somerset, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
77 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Bald | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district BA4 (Shepton Mallet) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 75 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About him
I should like to meet people - women and men - in the Bath/Bristol/Wells/ Yeovil area to enhance my friendship circle - walks, theatre, cinema etc. I have been celibate for a long time and am not looking to change this. However, If a sexual/romantic component comes in (most unlikely) -I should not slam the door on it. But if it did, it would be with a man, not a woman.
I'm well-read but the info goes in one side of the brain and out the other. I'm 'arty' but not 'crafty' - and both an avid conversationalist and a lover of silence. I meditate daily though have no belief system. A gregarious loner, introspective extrovert and warm-hearted cynic, I thrive on contradiction and paradox. With a keen ironic sense of humour, I'll probably entertain, stimulate and exasperate you in equal measure. I may be doing so already. Oh, and if you're looking for someone to mend a fuse, stay well clear. I'll electrocute us both, and blow the house up for good measure. Keep away too if you have an urge to discuss your grand kiddies. I enjoy being with children but go off them in the telling.
As an only child, I developed solitary pursuits and an independent spirit. Despite this, I've always worked relationally -with adults - as a teacher and psychotherapist. - Interests? Walking ; theatre ; cinema; art . Music; Bach, Beethoven, Adele; Dusty Springfield,; deep soul ballads ( books written and published on the last two subjects). Although I don't stay in the same mind-set for long -that's the way of all things- flux and flow - I'm a loyal friend and a good listener. Politics? Well, lapsed lefty - like most so-called 'socialists' in 2013.
I don't expect - or even want - another person to share my interests. Indeed, some of my oldest friends don't even share my values. Who can say why people are, or are not, compatible? 'Tis all a mystery.
I'll stop before verbal diarrhoea sets in. ( oh , and you'll notice I can spell. Well, if you can get 'diarrhoea' right -I have, haven't I? -you're fit for anything!)
About his ideal match
I don't have an 'ideal match'. Indeed, I find the such a notion rather odd. Compatibility is not determined by looks or interests but by that elusive something called 'chemistry' - this attraction exists in all friendships between woman and woman, man and man and man and woman.
Nonetheless, the men and women I seek to know are engaged with life and saying, 'yes, I'm up for it' rather than 'I'm too tired' or 'It might rain' or 'I'm not sure I can afford it'. I'm not after a sugar daddy or mummy who's overdosed on adrenolin - just a few people with inquiring minds and open hearts who share and care and wonder and laugh and lark about a bit. Okay, you may have health problems -I've had them too - but it's attitude that counts, especially when the time ahead is less than the time gone by. That's what this whole 'connections' thing seems to me to be about..
What His Friends Say
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More about him
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Moody; Outgoing; Outspoken; Pessimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Celibacy; Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Yellow |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Religious; Science / Technology |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Internet; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Writing books |
Sports: |
Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Labour |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Saga Dating: |
Jaded |
Honesty: |
Quite |
