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IanM

71 – Barnet (Hendon), London, England

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Barnet (Hendon), London, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
71
Star sign:
Sagittarius
Height:
5' 10" (178cm)
Body type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Widowed
Looking for:
A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Teaching / Education / Training
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Other
Religion:
Jewish

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 300 miles of postcode district NW4 (London)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
40 - 70
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 8" (141cm) - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Average; A few extra pounds; Disabled; Curvaceous; Full figured
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Relationship Status:
Any
Have children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally
Education:
University / College student; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Arts / Music / Writing; Food / Catering; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Media; Consultancy / Design; Home maker; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Indian; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I believe most people want caring and holding and I offer this.

I am fairly quiet, don't try to dominate, seldom shout.

I try to fit in with the other person as far as I reasonably can. I am fairly flexible.

I am a somewhat serious person, so I am able and willing to listen for her difficulties and be sympathetic to them.

I can admit I'm wrong.

I don't go in for long arguments, nor do I try one-upmanship.

I enjoy humour, irony, wit and cartoons. (Favourite: cartoon of Napoleon Bonaparte riding out of Mioscow in 1812 with bars of music coming from his moth. Caption: I love Paris in the springtime.)

I am very dependable and like that in others. I was the main carer for someone in their last months of life as they died of cancer, so I think I can say that i can offer this.

I am very opposed racism, sexism and homophobia. Hopefully you would not feel that you had experienced this with me.

I am much committed to honesty, integrity and veracity, and have a strong dislike of manipulation and evasiveness.

Very interested in current affairs.

I'm a fairly indoor type of person. Don't travel physically, but mentally.

About his ideal match

She should ideally be intellectually and emotionally intelligent. I don't use my abilities in these as sharp instrument to dominate, and wouldn't enjoy receiving this.


I would hope to meet someone who expects to receive and give care and who is emotionally literate and fairly integrated.

When I fail to consider the other person adequately I listen sympathetically to their complaints, and would hope the other person would try to do the same.

I very much want someone to be themselves, and not try to put on an emotional or sexual False Self.

I am fairly well built myself and am usually attracted to women of a similar size.


A sense of humour is highly desirable.


Some physical disability need not cause great difficulty.


She should not speak too loudly or be fond of loud music.

What His Friends Say

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More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Highbrow
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Confident; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite colour:
Gold
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium; Straight; Well-behaved
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Facial hair:
None
Body hair:
Hairy
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Gospel / Religious
Reading:
I read books regularly
Books:
(Auto)biographies; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Cartoons; Documentaries; Educational; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Documentary; Independent
Interests:
Healthy living; Internet; Politics; Reading; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Greek; Indian; Sushi
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I work part-time
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time online:
I check in once a day
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I rarely see them
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Pets (Like):
Cat(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Reptile(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream home:
House in the suburbs
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Politics:
Left of centre
Retirement plans:
Pursuing a sport or hobby
Feelings about using Saga Dating:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic
Honesty:
Very